We might still think of Wi-Fi as fracturing family life, with each member of the group off in front of a screen. Here’s an earlier story of improved technology and one family’s response. Ben Logan (1920–2014) recounts what happened when his father bought an Aladdin kerosene lamp for the dining-room table. “The new lamp gave more light,” Logan writes, “opening up the corners of the dining room, letting us scatter away from the little circle we’d always formed around the old Rayo.” And then one night Logan’s mother announced, “‘I’m not sure I like that new lamp’”:
Father was at his usual place at the table. “Why not? Burns less kerosene.”“I don’t think it’s the lamp. I think it’s us”: exactly. As I’ve written more than once in these pages, technology makes it possible to do things, not necessary to do them. Logan describes what followed in his family’s farmhouse:
“Look where everyone is.”
We were scattered. There was even enough light to read by on the far side of the stove.
“We’re all here,” Father said.
“Not like we used to be.”
Father looked at the empty chairs around the table. “Want to go back to the old lamp?”
“I don’t think it’s the lamp. I think it’s us. Does a new lamp have to change where we sit at night?”
Ben Logan, The Land Remembers: The Story of a Farm and Its People. 1975. (Minnetonka, MN: NorthWord Press, 1999).
Father’s eyes found us, one by one. Then he made a little motion with his head. We came out of our corners and slid into our old places at the table, smiling at each other, a little embarrassed to be hearing this talk.[Thanks to Chris at Dreamers Rise for pointing me to The Land Remembers.]
Mother sat down with us and nodded. “That’s better.”